Which brings me to you. I’m here to serve.
Through the marvel of the internet I am able to work with women all over the world. No matter where you live I can help you. (I do also travel if needed) My work inspires women going through high stress, high conflict divorce to make courages and bold moves, take action on deep seated dreams and live lives they only imagined.
My company is built on the solid foundation of hard-earned experience, a dedication to seeing you live your best life and a commitment to being an unstoppable force on support.
Through my writing, inspirational cards, podcast, audio training, masterclass, group coaching, 1:1 coaching, VIP 2 day intensives and life changing transformational retreats, I am here to make a difference and reframe the conversation, mindset and landscape of the divorce process. I help people just like you, to craft a life and relationship that feels good, fits comfortably and one that you truly desire.
My service is for women who believe they can gracefully and successfully divorce and heal and recover with dignity.
I focus on women who want to change the conversation, experience and successful outcome of the divorce process. I promise that engaging with what I do will help you get the results you desire and deserve.
If you believe that you don’t deserve to be heard and settle for what is determined by someone else…then you need to keep searching. I am not your girl.
Yes I have an online presence- but I spend as much time off line as possible to do what I do best…
Guide, support, coach and celebrate your journey however long and stressful, and difficult that may be.
I’m not hyper active on social media, so if you want to stay up on what’s going on (in and out of legal appointments) from me… my insider list is where its at.
You’ll only hear from me when I have something of importance to share and more if it’s something time sensitive or breaking news.
My work opens women up emotionally and effectively.
Curious what working with Paulette might feel like?
GET INSPIRED TO EXPERIENCE BEING FULLY SUPPORTED
Before, during, and after divorce, you are always worthy.
And yet, maintaining a sense of self-worth, a sense of self, while still maintaining all of your family, career, and personal obligations can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and darn near impossible.
I break down the steps, discover their best options, clear away their obstacles, refine their next steps and evaluate their results and celebrate their successes.
I SPECIALIZE IN WORKING WITH women who are experiencing high stress and HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE
I HELP THEM TO HAVE CLEAR EFFICIENT DIRECTION, MOVE RESILIENTLY THROUGH EXTREME STRESS AND SAVE PRECIOUS TIME AND MONEY
TO CREATE A SATISFYING SOLUTION AND FIND PEACE, PURPOSE, AND HAPPINESS
No two divorces are the same.
Whether you are just thinking about divorce, talking about divorce, just filed, deep in the process or have finished the process and want to know “what next”, there is hope, and you are able to come out of this experience stronger and more powerful than ever before.
But I know it’s hard. I’ve been there, too.
I have a few regrets in the way I handled my divorce but my biggest one was not doing the research to find the wise, experienced and consistent support of a certified divorce coach. In fact, to be honest I wasn’t aware that such a professional existed. I trusted my lawyer and left it at that. I made the mistake of treating my legal team as if they were therapists, financial planners,
I filed for divorce in 2008. I was completely clueless about the process heading into it. I was terrified of making mistakes and bad decisions. I was very concerned about how the divorce would affect and impact my children and our relationship. I felt powerless. I was afraid of my future. Suddenly I felt alone and isolated, I had no idea who my real friends were. My friends were our friends and “would they take his side?” “Would the children blame me?” I was even distant
But it didn’t… the more I stayed frozen, stuck, trapped and scared the worse it got. Somehow I made it to the other side. But boy do I wish I knew there were divorce coaches around back then. I would have jumped at the chance to work with one.
My experience was unique, and so is yours. I want to take the lessons I learned and share with other women the tips and secrets to getting through your specific divorce whole, strong and in control.
No matter where you are in the divorce process there are specific steps we can take together to help you through the process.
In my divorce coaching programs, you will…
Create a clear plan
always have a back-up plan B and C
Get organized and prepared
Prioritize practical actionsteps
set goals for Personal change
Improve communication skills with difficult people
Build your expert support team
Deal with emotional overwhelm and fear
Learn to return to your best self
Find safety, healing and comfort in the midst of turmoil
Build strength, confidence and courage
Revitalize your self-care and wellness
Improve strained relationships
Clarify your values, goals and purpose
Design your desired future
Regardless if you are in the very beginning stages of decision-making transition, pre-divorce, during a divorce or post-divorce stage we all need a champion, a team, an advocate, a cheerleader, a friend and an expert coach to help guide you.
Therapists deal with the past.
Lawyers deal with the law.
Financial planners deal with money.
But as a Certified Divorce Coach (R), I give you clarity, inspired action and expert support every step of the way and we do it together.
I made it out the other side and you will too.