I’m here to serve.
Through the marvel of the internet I am able to work with women all over the world. No matter where you live I can help you. (I do also travel if needed) My work inspires women going through high conflict divorce to make courages and bold moves, take action on deep seated dreams and live lives they only imagined.
My company is built on the solid foundation of hard earned experience, a dedication to seeing you live your best life and a commitment to being an unstoppable force on support.
Through my writing, inspirational cards, audio trainings, masterclass, group coaching, 1:1 coaching, VIP 2 day intensives and 2 and 4 day life changing transformational retreats, I am here to make a difference and reframe the conversation, mindset and landscape of the divorce process. To help you craft a life and a relationship that feels good, fits comfortably and one that you truly desire.
My service is for women who believe they can gracefully and successfully divorce.
I focus on women who want to change the conversation, experience and successful outcome of the divorce process. I promise that engaging with what I do will help you get the results you desire and deserve.
If you believe that you don’t deserve to be heard and settle for what is determined by someone else…then you need to keep searching. I am not your girl.
Yes I have an online presence- but I spend as much time off line as possible to do what I do best…
Guide, support, coach and celebrate your journey however long and stressful, and difficult that may be.
I’m not hyper action on social media, so if you want to stay up on what’s going on (in and out of the courthouse) from me… my insider list is where its at.
You’ll only hear from me on Tuesdays and more if it’s something time sensitive or breaking news.
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My work opens women up emotionally and effectively.
Curious what working with Paulette might feel like?
GET INSPIRED TO EXPERIENCE BEING FULLY SUPPORTED
Before, during, and after divorce, you are always worthy.
And yet, maintaining a sense of self-worth, a sense of self, while still maintaining all of your family, career, and personal obligations can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and impossible.
AS A CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH I am changing the mindset and landscape of the divorce process for my clients.
I break down the steps, discover their best options, clear away their obstacles, refine their next steps and evaluate their results and celebrate their successes.
I SPECIALIZE IN WORKING WITH PROFESSIONAL AND ENTREPRENEURIAL WOMEN IN HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE
I HELP THEM TO HAVE CLEAR EFFICIENT DIRECTION, MOVE RESILIENTLY THROUGH EXTREME STRESS
AND SAVE PRECIOUS TIME AND MONEY
TO CREATE A SATISFYING SOLUTION AND FIND PEACE, PURPOSE AND HAPPINESS
No two divorces are the same.
Whether you are just thinking about divorce, talking about divorce, just filed, deep in the process or have finished the process and want to know “what next”, there is hope, and you are able to come out of this experience stronger and more powerful than ever before.
But I know it’s hard. I’ve been there, too.
I have a few regrets in the way I handled my divorce but my biggest one was not doing the research to find a certified divorce coach. In fact, to be honest I wasn’t aware that such a professional existed. I trusted my lawyer and left it at that. I made the mistake of treating my legal team as if they were therapists, financial planners and my best friends and it cost a fortune.
I filed for divorce in 2008. I was completely clueless about the process heading into it. I was terrified of making mistakes and bad decisions. I was very concerned about how the divorce would affect and impact my children and our relationship. I felt powerless. I was afraid about my future. Suddenly I felt alone and isolated, I had no idea who my real friends were. My friends were our friends and “would they take his side?” “Would the children blame me?” I was even distant with my family. They seemed judgmental like I should stick it out, stay together for the children’s sake. I didn’t want to be a burden to anyone and I was embarrassed to share my feelings. I wanted it all to just go away.
But it didn’t… the more I stayed frozen, stuck, trapped and scared the worse it got. Somehow I made it to the other side. But boy do I wish I knew there were divorce coaches around back then. I would have jumped at the chance to work with one.
My experience was unique, and so is yours. I want to take what I learned and share with other women the secrets to getting through your specific divorce whole, strong and in control.
No matter where you are in the divorce process there are specific steps we can take together to help you through the process.
In my divorce coaching programs, you will…
Create a clear plan
Get organized and prepared
Prioritize practical actions
Personal change management
Build your expert support team
Deal with emotional overwhelm
Learn to return to your best self
Find safety, healing and comfort
Build confidence and courage
Revitalize your wellness
Clarify your values, goals and purpose
Design your future
Regardless if you are in the decision making transition, pre-divorce, during divorce or post divorce stage we all need a champion, a team, an advocate, a cheerleader, a friend and an expert coach to help guide you.
Therapists deal with the past.
Lawyers deal with the law.
Financial planners deal with money.
But as a Certified Divorce Coach I give you clarity, inspired action and expert support every step of the way.
I made it out the other side and you will too.
SPECIFIC OFFERINGS (I SITLL NEED TO WORK ON THE WORDING FOR THESE …THEY NEED TO SOUND MUCH MORE EXCITED AND EXPERIENTIAL)
(SIMPLE LIST OF OFFERINGS WITH LINKS TO EACH
SOME WILL NEED DETAILS AND APPLICATION, SOME ONLY PAYMENT PROCESSING)
The Book, The Anchor Podcast, Ted Talk and Retreat
Get the book Free! (Click here to receive your free copy)
Gracefully Divorcing: navigating the journey wisely.
For women in all stages of relationship and life transition.
$375 annual membership: open ongoing enrollment including two 90 minute monthly scheduled and recorded sessions: varied topics and special guest experts. (Click here for information and confidential application to join)
3, 6 or 12 session package available. Confidential application available here (Click here to book free private discovery session)
4 days in the Tropical Paradise of Belize. Accommodations, Meals, Excursions, Transfers, CDC Workshops with Paulette Gloria Harwood Certified Divorce Coach and her team of experts (Click here for retreat details)
How to work with Paulette
Click the button below to get in touch.
Fill out the application telling me a little bit more about you, your journey, and why you want support now.
I will be in touch within 2 business days to set up a time to speak together.
We’ll sit down, chat about you and your journey, and get some clarity around your next steps so that you can start stepping into your new life.
I will assist you to:
HAVE NO REGRETS
SUCCEED WITH YOUR FINANCES
BE EXPERTLY REPRESENTED
FIND UNCONDITIONAL SUPPORT
REGAIN YOUR SANITY
BE TREATED WITH RESPECT