Before, during, and after divorce, you are always worthy.
AS A CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH I am changing the mindset and landscape of the divorce process for my clients.
I break down the steps, discover their best options, clear away their obstacles, celebrate their success, evaluate their results and refine their next steps.
I SPECIALIZE IN WORKING WITH PROFESSIONAL AND ENTREPRENEURIAL WOMEN IN HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE
I HELP THEM TO HAVE CLEAR EFFICIENT DIRECTION, MOVE RESILIENTLY THROUGH EXTREME STRESS
AND SAVE PRECIOUS TIME AND MONEY
TO CREATE A SATISFYING SOLUTION AND FIND PEACE, PURPOSE AND HAPPINESS
No two divorces are the same.
And yet, maintaining a sense of self-worth, a sense of self, while still maintaining all of your family, career, and personal obligations can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and impossible.
Whether you are just thinking about divorce, talking about divorce, just filed, deep in the process or have finished the process and want to know “what next”, there is hope, and you are able to come out of this experience stronger and more powerful than ever before.
But I know it’s hard. I’ve been there, too.
I have a few regrets in the way I handled my divorce but my biggest one was not doing the research to find a certified divorce coach. In fact, to be honest I wasn’t aware that such a professional existed. I trusted my lawyer and left it at that. I made the mistake of treating my legal team as if they were therapists, financial planners and my best friends and it cost a fortune.
I filed for divorce in 2008. I was completely clueless about the process heading into it. I was terrified of making mistakes and bad decisions. I was very concerned about how the divorce would affect and impact my children and our relationship. I felt powerless. I was afraid about my future. Suddenly I felt alone and isolated, I had no idea who my real friends were. My friends were our friends and “would they take his side?” “Would the children blame me?” I was even distant with my family. They seemed judgmental, like I should stick it out, stay together for the children’s sake. I didn’t want to be a burden to anyone and I was embarrassed to share my feelings. I wanted it all to just go away.
But it didn’t… the more I stayed frozen, stuck, trapped and scared the worse it got. Somehow I made it to the other side. But boy do I wish I knew there were divorce coaches around back then. I would have jumped at the chance to work with one.
My experience was unique, and so is yours. I want to take what I learned and share with other women the secrets to getting through your specific divorce whole, strong and in control.
No matter where you are in the divorce process there are specific steps we can take together to help you through the process.
In my divorce coaching programs, you will…
• learn to return to yourself, especially after a life transition that feels like it pulls it all apart so that you can rediscover what you truly want, connect with your life’s desires, what makes you feel alive, and like yourself, and utterly happy and at peace
• find safety, healing, comfort, and confidence in your own body and life, designing a life that you love instead of defaulting into the one that you’ve had up until now
• improve your relationships with loved ones, with yourself, and with the world and move toward a healthier, more vibrant, celebratory life
• clarify your vision of purpose, rediscover your values and desires, and set and achieve goals that feel amazing and bring you closer to the life and becoming the dynamic woman you truly desire to be
Regardless if you are in the decision making transition, pre-divorce, during divorce or post divorce stage we all need a champion, a team, an advocate, a cheerleader, a friend and an expert coach to help guide you.
Therapists deal with the past.
Lawyers deal with the law.
Financial planners deal with money.
But Coaches give you clarity, inspired action and expert support every step of the way.
I made it out the other side and you will too.
Never Been A 34B: When nothing fits The Book, The Anchor Podcast, Ted Talk and Retreat Get the book Free! (Click here to receive your free copy) Amazon link?
Private online community group coaching: Gracefully Divorcing: navigating the journey wisely. For women in all stages of relationship and life transition. $375 annual membership: open ongoing enrolment with two 90 minute monthly scheduled and recorded sessions: varied topics and special guest experts. (Click here for information and application)
1:1 Certified Divorce Coaching: Free discovery session to assess clients needs and determine mutual agreement. 3, 6 or 12 session package available. Confidential application available here (Click here to book free private discovery session)
The Retreat: Write and Process Your Divorce Story: An emotional face lift for the soul.
5 days in the Tropical Paradise of Belize. Accommodations, Meals, Excursions, Transfers, Workshops with Paulette Gloria Harwood Certified Divorce Coach, Melina Denebeim CDC and Director at Columbia Business School and Marie Incantrera a Ted Talk Coach with a 100% success rate. (Click here for retreat details)
How to work with Paulette
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We’ll sit down, chat about you and your journey, and get some clarity around your next steps so that you can start stepping into your new life.